Anything she learned about mormonsim, she wanted to learn on her own. My family supported me in this. Her beliefs are innocous but ultimately a death sentence for this relationship. But it's the away rotations for months at a time that get really hard. That was hard on my relationship and I had to give up on my dream of being a computer programmer. Thanks for these thoughts. Public displays of affection PDA show a lack of self-control. It is not the norm. Needless to say, his top choices were not near my family and friends. God loves every last one of us, regardless of religious affiliation.




You guys sound like you have a great and committed relationship - a true jewel in this world. Dating a mormon girl. Why Mormons don't drink wine or coffee. From reading the above posts from previous posters, please keep in mind that while it helps to read and learn from each others' experiences as we are all in the same boat -- we must also make the distinction between someone's occupation and their personality or character. But he's got to know the aggravation and pain that he likely will face. But then when we do spend time together I have an absolute blast and everything just goes so well that I end up liking him even more. I adored seeing him when I could planned good home made meals and always sent him off the next night with a special packed lunch. Hi all, It's really interesting to read all of your experiences and how you've worked through the difficult times.
Take the crazy and add a ton of even crazier shit on on top and Your girlfriend literally believes in a book of scripture that was produced from a rock in Josephs Hat. Your crush might put a lampshade on her head and call it innocent fun. Honestly, the thing that makes me the craziest is the missionaries. There is no freedom to think, no freedom to speak your mind, and no freedom to do anything that 'the brethren' say not to. Keep the relationship casual. Sadly, the general consensus of "convert or nope out" sounds like what will end up happening. You will be surrounded by single women, many of whom are probably interested in dating and marrying a Mormon, so take advantage.
And how little some men understand the value of a well-dusted baseboard. As a non-Mormon male widower Catholic contemplating marrying a devout temple recommended widow, I thank you all for the wonderful blog. It sucks but ultimately what Mormonism does to people is it makes them value adherence to church more than their relationships with people. My family supported me in this. There is much that needs to change and many hearts to educate but if we doubt some of the fundamentals then why not all of them. Some great ideas include going on a hike or a walk, having a picnic outside or going to museum. Be fruitful and multiply.