You have to have very thick skin to stay in it. I would not want my children raised Mormon which she seems intent on. I know how long his residency lasts. What a fascinating response as always.


It's up to you to decide whether or not this is someone worth waiting for. He has let me be a stay-at-home mother while trying to launch my own business and has offered love and support every step of the way. Am still very hopeful and in love. We have a strong relationship, so I am lucky - but lately the demands of family are becoming a bit too much to handle - and I really don't know how to 'deal' with my inlaws and 'sharing' my husband with them. Why not rather find yourself a rich sugardaddy and leave the docs alone. I went to BYU. I suggest to run as it will not get better. He wants me to sit around while he does his stuff. No one appreciates how demanding it is unless they have lived it, many friends over the years said to me "lucky you, you are married to a Doctor.
We are in a predicament, because we are Jewish and it is difficult to get married between April and November during day light savings time because the sun sets much later which elongates our sabbath and makes it difficult to start a wedding at a reasonable time. Mormon's view marriages outside the temple to be counterfeit and you can't get into the temple without converting to the religion. Do whatever it takes to at least learn from your relationship with your Mormon crush. He blames this on his hours for residency, and to be fair they are really long and insane. If it is already an issue in your relationship, then it'll amplify to an extreme if you get married. Anonymous, you are right. When we're together, everything is good. But what I discovered surprised me.
I would go ahead and make boundaries with the conversation about kids and church, if that is your preference. I respect what my husband does but I have nothing but my pets and a dusty Ivy Leaguedegree. She's such a martyr and a great person for doing this. If your date has been an active member of the Church who is following these moral guidelines, then she will not be willing to involve herself in a sexual relationship with you.